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Summer has arrived in full force and it's not going anywhere anytime soon. Kids are home, the weather is hot, and unless you have 7000 activities lined up, kids will complain of boredom within 37 seconds. So hit the store and be prepared with these essential tools for surviving an entire summer home with the children.
1. Head phones and music. Because kids having fun are loud. Kids annoyed or upset are loud. Kids bored out of their little skulls are loud. You're going to need some peace and quiet, and you'll only get that with a quality pair of noise-canceling headphones.
2. Reflective silver insulation. You know that thin weird stuff at the hardware store you always frown at? Pick up a roll. Cut it down to size so it fits in the children's bedroom windows perfectly. No gaps. This is important. Once this is done, you'll accomplish two things. First, you'll reduce your cooling bill by keeping the heat out, but who really cares about that? The real benefit will be blocking out the light so the kids don't realize the sun is up. Because we all know that when school's out, kids are up as soon they sense the sun. Buy yourself a little time each morning.
3. Sunscreen and bug spray. Not to use on the kids. You know darn well that those kids are not coming anywhere near you if you're threatening to slather or spray them with anything. Instead, these are the items you lose when you hit the beach or waterpark. Because everyone loses at least two things each trip. Better than the baby.
4. Water guns. Big ones. Then the kids can hunt each other in the yard, get wet and cooled down, and not bother you for fifteen minutes.
5. A list of chores. So when one of the kids cries about boredom, you can say, "Here. Bored kids sweep the porch." Post the list on the fridge and let the kids know what it's for. You'll be amazed how often they're not bored.
6. Drinks. Like lemonade, iced tea, or those fancy water enhancer things. You'll need to keep the kids hydrated and no one wants to drink water in the summer. This way you'll have a selection and no one moans. Yes, you could insist they drink water, but that will end with you losing your mind. Plan ahead.
7. A pool or at least a sprinkler. Think back to swimming in pools when you were a kid and you'll know why public pools are gross. Between the pee and occasional toddler actually pooping in the pool (it happens more than you think), you probably don't want to go to a public pool. Also, public pools suck for parents. Have water sports available at home as an alternative.
8. Towels and swimsuits. Multiples of each. Because you know they're going to get wet in the morning, change into dry clothes, and then want to get wet all over again, but not in the already-wet swimsuits. And no one likes wet towels.
9. Bubbles. Tons of fun to be had here by all ages. And, as a bonus, bubbles are basically soap. Once they're done with the bubbles, spray them off with the hose. Instant shower and the kids think it's hilarious.
10. Board games and such. Because not every day will be bright and sunny and you need a backup plan. If you don't have something to occupy them on yucky days, they'll eat the sofa.
11. Video games and movies. I know, I know. Screen time is evil and all that. But, seriously, on a rainy day, or a day when the humidity is out to murder you, these can occupy longer than that old game of checkers you have in the closet. Desperate times call for desperate measures. And screen time isn't the enemy. Two months of no school is the enemy.
12. Something just for Mom. If you want to come out the other side of summer in one piece, you need something just for you. Maybe it's a glass of wine before you go to bed. Maybe a chocolate bar you sneak when the kids are chasing each other outside. It might be a special book you read just a little of every morning. Whatever it is, make it something you never share.
You can survive summer. Trust me. It's only two months. You will make it.
We have a bit of a lazy summer around here, so we go to the zoo or water parks or any other place whenever we feel like it. Since it's been hot lately, the water park has been our top choice for the past couple weeks. And in these couple weeks, I've noticed the water park is home to some interesting characters.
The Germaphobe
Why this person even comes to the water park is beyond me. She brings her kids, then proceeds to tell them to stay out of the water because of all the bacteria. And don't you know someone might have peed in that pool? Yes, dear, we all know that. We just don't care because our kids are melting from the heat.
The Clueless Mom
Her 3 kids are cutting in line, poking other kids in the eyes, and drinking the water with no regard for Germaphobe's little tantrum over there. And where is Clueless Mom? Well, she might be on her phone, or maybe reading a book. But she totally doesn't notice her little one pushing yours off the ladder.
The Fun-Loving Dad
This guy is just rocking the water park. He has more fun than anyone there. Everyone either loves him or hates him. Including his own kids, who were all ready to leave 4 hours ago.
The Self-Conscious Mom
We've all been there. Tummy is too round. Breasts are too saggy. Butt is...don't go there. This mom is covered from head to toe and she won't go in the water even if she's melting from the heat. Have some sympathy. If you haven't been there before, you will be there one day.
Perfect Mom
You either hate her or you are her. She's in a bikini, actually looks good, and has her kids and everything else in order. Though you secretly pray for her to suffer a massive wardrobe malfunction, you also want to be her. But don't admit it or you're out of the Not-So-Perfect Mom Club.
Grandparents
These people are playing with the kids they've brought and are even playing with kids they didn't. And they're enjoying it, probably because grandparents are the only people kids listen to on a regular basis. Makes us all wish we were grandparents so our kids would listen to us as well...
The Creepy Guy
Why is there always one single guy with no kids standing outside the girls' washroom? I don't know either, but he's the reason we don't send our daughters to the washroom alone.
The Bored Lifeguard
He's supposed to be making sure no one dies, but he's been melting in the heat for the last 7 hours. This guy is mostly asleep, so don't count on him to help your little ones out of a jam.
There are other characters at the water park. Sleeping teenagers. The kids who apparently have no supervision. The weird concession guy. Try people watching the next time you're there. You'll laugh, shake your head, and have a great time.
Board games can be used to teach children many skills, and they’re entertaining enough to engage kids while they’re learning. Children can learn verbal skills, creativity, cognitive thinking, and math skills from a variety of board games. Almost any game will teach these skills to some degree or another. However, if you’re looking for games that will help your children understand math and apply to their daily lives, there are five games you should consider investing in: Aggravation, Candyland, The Game of Life, Math Animals Game, and Monopoly.
On the surface, Aggravation may not seem to teach math skills beyond the average board game. However, this game, featuring marbles, requires that the values of the dice are added together, teaching addition and counting. In some cases, subtraction is also involved. Aggravation also teaches some strategic thinking, which is an important problem solving and math skill. This game appeals to all ages (and parents will love it too), so it’s a great game for the entire family.
Candlyland is generally a game for younger children. It teaches simple skills such as taking turns and basic counting. It is an excellent game to start with and can be fun for parents and children. Try enjoying this game with your young children and see how much they learn from such a simple game.
The Game of Life teaches many skills that are necessary in real life. It involves spinning a spinner, counting spaces, and dealing with money. This exciting game is good for the whole family and introduces children to concepts such as addition and subtraction, counting, and simple money management. There is even some basic multiplication involved in The Game of Life.
Math Animals Game is designed for children over the age of 5, but younger children often enjoy it as well, with a little help. This game involves rolling the die, moving around the board according to the number displayed, and landing on the highest number. All of this teaches children basic math skills such as addition, subtraction, and even multiplication.
Of all the board games involving mathematics, Monopoly is by far the best. There are few math skills that Monopoly doesn’t teach, and it’s a great game for any age, not simply for children. Younger children will learn to count and even add as they roll the dice and move around the board. Money management is the key focus of this game and helps children learn to deal with money is a straightforward and responsible way. Even multiplication is frequently introduced as players land on utilities and have to calculate rent. Problem solving is also an integral part of the game and will help children develop cognitive strategic thinking. In sort, Monopoly is a great game for teaching many mathematical skills.
There are many other games that will teach basic math skills to children. In fact, most games involve some math, even if it’s only simple counting. It is important to make board games a regular in your household to promote the development of many of the skills your children will need later in life.
Traveling with children can be frustrating and sometimes a little frightening. The challenge of keeping children occupied for long periods of time in a confined space is not one most parents are eager to embrace. However, in today’s world, there will be times when it is necessary to travel with children. When this happens, it is best to keep a selection of toys particularly suited to travel. This can help keep your children occupied and entertained for the duration of your journey. But only if you pick the toys and games you will pack with care.
It’s going to be tempting just to grab favorite toys and games and throw them in the care. This may seem like a good idea, but in reality it’s the worst thing you can do. Familiar toys will be played with and discarded within the first few minutes of the trip. Instead, collect new toys that will only be played with during travel. Don’t give these toys to your children before the journey starts, and don’t give them all at once. Space them out, perhaps one new toy or game an hour, to give the children something to look forward to.
Another benefit of not taking favorite toys is that there is no risk of leaving something behind. There is nothing worse than getting home only to realize a special toy, game, or blanket has been left behind. Avoid the entire situation by leaving familiar toys and games at home.
What to Take on a Trip
The back seat of a car or even airplane seats are confined areas. Not all toys work well in such a situation. Choose items that are small and portable as well as entertaining. Consider allowing the children to color or doodle. Crayons and coloring books are cheap and easy to find. Older children might enjoy puzzle or activity books. Even blank paper can present the opportunity to be creative and quiet in the back seat. If you have a budding writer in the family, pack pads of paper and pencils.
For those children who love reading, books and magazines can be just the thing to make a long trip more bearable. Just make sure you pack age appropriate books. Infants and toddlers are best served by having plenty of picture books to look at. To save yourself a headache, choose cloth or board books that cannot be destroyed by simply tearing a page. Older children might enjoy short stories or even novels, depending on their age and interest. Have several new books waiting in the car for each trip. To reduce your costs, you might want to check a local used bookstore or even a thrift shop.
If you have children who love to play board games, purchase a few magnetic games. These are often advertised as “travel games” and feature magnetic pieces to prevent them from being scattered across the car. Read any age restrictions carefully, as the smaller pieces are not usually recommended for children under 3 years of age. Travel games have become quite popular in recent years and many different games are available. Look for favorite titles such as Snakes ‘n Ladders, Checkers, and even Monopoly. Some games even have multiple games in one package, so look for these as a way to save space and money.
Children love toys, so no journey would be complete without some toys for your children to play with. When games have been put away and the children grow tired of reading or drawing, they’ll appreciate the chance for free play with some new toys. Pack small groups of toys in plastic bags and dole them out when the children get restless. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to get new toys. Check your local thrift shop or discount store for cheap toys that will entertain and amuse on your trip. Younger children appreciate anything new; they won’t care if these toys come from the thrift store.
When choosing these toys, think about your own sanity. Don’t purchase toys that make a lot of noise if you’re certain you’ll become irritated after five minutes. Remember that children make noise already, so loud toys will only increase the volume. Choose those toys that are quite but still have the ability to engage your children for at least fifteen minutes at a time.
Age appropriate toys and games can be the difference between an enjoyable trip and one that everyone remembers are torture. Keeping a selection of toys and games ready for your next trip can help ensure that everyone has a good time.
Modern parents are very familiar with having to raise money for schools, events, and whatever else pops up. Sometimes all we have to do is sell whatever we're asked to sell. Other times, we'll be asked to handle an entire event ourselves. Fundraisers are a great way for your school or organization to build up a nice little stock of funds. People love ice cream. Bring these two things together and you have a recipe for success. If you do it right. Setting up a stand on the side of the road is probably not going to get you a lot of money, and you ice cream will probably melt. However, there are some ways in which to use ice cream to raise a lot of money.
If there’s a local event that you’re aware of, ask the organizers if you can set up an ice cream stand. Some places to inquire are craft fairs, church meals, company picnics, flea markets, and various events held at your local parks. Many places will welcome the refreshment and you’ll be able to raise some money. It never hurts to ask.
You might also want to hold your own event. ‘Ice Cream Festivals’ are popping up all over North America and Europe. The focus is not necessarily the ice cream. Set up games and contests for participants, awarding prizes for winners. You may want to sell tickets to the event, both beforehand and at the door. You can also charge for food, ice cream, and certain games. Make it fun for everyone, and make sure you advertise your event.
In either case, you’ll need to do some planning beforehand. Start by determining how much money you need to raise. The goal is always to raise as much money as possible while spending very little. If you spend too much on your fundraiser, you are less likely to raise the money you need. Settle on your budget early on, and stick to it.
Ask yourself who your target customers are. This will likely be determined by where and when you are hosting your ice cream fundraiser. You’ll want to price your ice cream accordingly. People roaming about a park will probably have less money on hand than those at a swanky party. Consider this when pricing your ice cream. The goal is to sell, after all.
Think about advertising early in the planning stages. If no one knows about your event, no one will come. Put up flyers, run ads in local papers, and submit your event to community or church bulletin boards. Start advertising as soon as you have organized the details of the event so that people can book the date and attend. Otherwise you’ll have a great many people who want to come but can’t.
Determine what types and flavors of ice cream you’ll want to offer then start contacting companies. Many ice cream producers and distributors have fundraising programs, and these are usually your best bet. You could opt to purchase your ice cream from retailers, but you probably won’t get as good a deal. Having to pay the extra money will cut into your profit margin.
You’ll need to rent some equipment for your event. Freezers to keep the ice cream cold, scoops, and bowls and spoons (though most fundraisers use disposables) will all be necessary. If you’d like to offer soft ice cream, you’ll have to rent soft ice cream makers. These aren’t cheap, but if you think you’ll have enough customers, it might be worth a try. Keep in mind that you’ll risk not make enough money to justify your event. On the other hand, your event might be successful enough to repeat. Just remember that the more money you put into the event, the greater the chance that you won’t raise the money you’re looking for.
Don’t be afraid to ask for donations, especially if you’re hosting your own event. Many companies and stores are more than willing to donate for prizes. You might even be able to talk your suppliers into providing most or all of their product for free. It never hurts to ask, and you might save yourself a lot of money.
The bottom line of any fundraiser is always money. Look for donations, recruit volunteers, and even ask for free advertising from local vendors and newspapers. The less money you spend, the more you’ll have for your organization’s funds. With that in mind, don’t be too cheap. Offer a quality event and you’ll be sure to make the money you need.
For a beautiful and unique look at language and rhyme, try introducing your children to the literary classics of Dr. Seuss. The colorful illustrations will capture the imagination of any child, and no child should grow up without being exposed to these witty puns. One of the best ways to share Dr. Seuss with your children is to enroll in the Dr. Seuss Book Club.
Books are often quite expensive, and they don’t seem to be coming down in price. However, Early Moments, one of the best children’s book clubs in the world, makes acquiring quality Dr. Seuss books affordable and fun. Depending on the time of year and the current promotion being offered, you can receive up to 90 percent off the retail price of some books, with a commitment to buy a prescribed number of other Dr. Seuss books. If you find yourself unsatisfied with your purchases, you can have your entire payment refunded through the 100 percent unconditional money back guarantee.
The Dr. Seuss Book Club boasts some of the highest quality hardcover books that can be found. They are durable and will stand the test of time. And each month you will receive new titles for your Dr. Seuss library, all hand-picked by educational experts, delivered right to your door. These truly are some of the best books for children, both in terms of their binding and paper and their content.
These books will teach your children life skills such as letter recognition, reading, matching, rhyming, counting, and so much more. And not only will you receive books featuring characters created by Dr. Seuss, you’ll find a selection of books featuring popular characters such as Thomas the Tank Engine, the Berenstein Bears, Arthur, and many more.
Joining the Dr. Seuss & His Friends Book Club is simple. When you sign up for the club, you’ll receive five hardcover books, plus an exclusive Dr. Seuss tote bag, for the low price of $4.99. You’ll also have the option of purchasing two more bonus books for only $4.99 for both. The only commitment you have to make is to purchase at least two club shipments (excluding the initial shipment with the tote bag).
Each month following your initial purchase, you will receive a shipment of three books at a price of only $20.94 for all three. If you are unsatisfied with any particular shipment, simply send it back with no obligation to buy. You will continue to receive monthly shipments, unless you follow the cancellation instructions included with each shipment.
There are many benefits to joining the Dr. Seuss & His Friends Book Club. This unique book club was designed to help parents build an entire library of entertaining books for your children to enjoy. You can learn to recapture your own childhood as you explore Dr. Seuss through the eyes of your children, and you’ll reconnect with them through a shared love of language.
The cadence and rhyme associated with Dr. Seuss is perfect for soothing young children. Reading the tales out loud while holding your younger children can help you to create a calming, nurturing and pleasant environment. And these books bring so much joy that it’s easy incorporate reading into your children’s day. It will become something they anticipate and enjoy.
The magic of Dr. Seuss is something that no child should miss. The Dr. Seuss Book Club is more than worth the money. However, it is important to remember that offers change from time to time, so take advantage of the best offer you can find.
Snowball fights are a common sight in winter and can be great fun. Children (or even adults) dash to and fro, attempting to evade snowballs thrown by an opponent, while at the same time hoping to get in a few good shots of their own. Snowball fights are fun and exciting, and for some, they’re all about competition. If you are interested in truly winning a snowball fight, you’ll have to learn to strategize and take your opponents by surprise.
Before you even start thinking about strategy, you need to consider your equipment. Running shoes and your new hoodie just won't do. You need something that will keep you warm and dry, but still allow you to move quickly and quietly. This means that your old bulky snowsuit won't work either. Choose lightweight, but waterproof, mitts and boots. Your jacket should be light, so dress in layers. This way, you can discard a layer if you get too hot. You'll need snow pants of course, but go for the lighter version, perhaps the type with vents to help keep you cool if you're moving a lot. Choose a hat that will protect you from wild snowballs, such as one with ear flaps, and you should wear a neck warmer instead of a scarf. This way, you won't strangle yourself on a tree as you dodge flying snow-missiles.
You'll also need the correct ammunition. Powdery snow usually just falls apart when you try to make a snowball, but it can be handy for flinging into an opponent's eyes while you try to escape after finding yourself in enemy territory. Look for slightly damp powdery snow that can be easily molded. If you're near a driveway or roadside, look for slush. You can usually mix it with powdery snow to come up with a wonderful snowball that has great distance and accuracy. For even greater distance, find an old tennis or badminton racquet to hit your snowballs with. You'll be surprised at how far they'll fly. Now that you have your equipment, you'll need a strategy.
If you simply stand in the middle of the yard and throw snowballs, you’re bound to get hit a few times, probably in the face, and you’ll likely even lose the game. If you want to win a snowball fight, you’ll have to make the best use of available cover. Natural barriers such as trees and snow banks work well, or you can hide behind a deck, pile of firewood, or even behind a garbage can. To increase your own protection during a snowball fight, look for something that you can move with you. The lids of garbage cans work well, but anything that can act as a shield will do.
No cover? Create some. If you know that you’re likely to have a snowball fight in your front yard, get to work creating some clever places to hide. Pack snow into a ‘fort’ to provide protection. To strengthen this fort, pour water on top. The water will freeze, creating a barrier that is strong enough to withstand most attacks. If you have the time, you might want to stash some ready-made snowballs in your fort, in case of an emergency.
If you’re using teams for your snowball fight, make the best use of your teammates. Work together and plan together. Get an opponent singled out and split up, attacking from multiple angles. When attacking from different angles, it’s important that you do not completely surround the enemy. Your own teammates could get caught in the crossfire. If the rules of your game state that you’re eliminated as soon as you’re hit with a snowball, you could find yourself eliminating your own teammates.
If you have a large enough team, have some of your teammates wait at a designated location, hiding behind trees or snow banks. When things look bad for your team, make a show of retreating. Try to get the other team to follow you right into the heart of your ‘reinforcements.’ While this is a little sneaky and doesn’t guarantee a win, at least you’ll have done something creative.
Don’t retreat without a plan. If you team constantly flees, you’ll find that you’re soon cornered into one area of the playing field. At this point, you’ll be surrounded and probably be forced to surrender. Hold your ground, if at all possible. If you must run, have a plan in place before you and your teammates just start scattering.
If you’re running out of snowballs faster that you can make them, have a teammate or two leave the fight and focus solely on making snowballs for the entire team. This will speed things up and give anyone with a really good arm more opportunities to take out an unsuspecting opponent.
If you find yourself without a snowball when encountering an opponent, kick up some snow into your opponent’s face and run. Take cover and make yourself a few snowballs quickly, because your opponent is likely annoyed at you by now. He or she will probably be intent on shoving a snowball down your throat, so be prepared.
Don’t waste your snowballs. This means that you should avoid throwing them without a clear target. Before you throw a single snowball, find an opponent, get him or her in your sights, and then throw when you have the perfect opportunity. If this means that you have to wait before firing, then wait. Better to have waited a few seconds and hit your mark than fire immediately and miss.
Don’t be afraid to sneak up on people from behind. Hit-and-run is a perfectly acceptable tactic when engaging in a snowball fight. Just make sure you get out of there quickly, or you might become the target of the entire opposing team. Take shelter behind your own teammates, and if no one actually saw you attack from behind, deny, deny, deny.
Get your teammates to cover you will you try to get to higher ground. A deck, woodpile, play structure, or even high snow hill can work. If you have higher ground, you have a better chance of seeing who’s coming at you. If at all possible, have each teammate take a high position. This should help you to win the snowball fight.
When you see a snowball flying towards you, try to catch it in your own hands and fling it back at your attacker. Use soft hands to cup the snowball to help it maintain its integrity. Be careful when employing this strategy, because if the snowball explodes on your hands, it likely counts as a hit, and you might be eliminated from the game.
If you want to win a snowball fight, you’ll have to be quick. Make your snowballs quickly, attack quickly, and move quickly. If you stay in one place too long, you’ll likely have the other team descend upon you. Change positions frequently, and try not to let the other team discover exactly where you are, at least for a few exchanges.
A truly organized snowball fight will have rules. Make sure everyone understands the rules before you start playing. Remember to be specific when creating these rules. If you say you can’t throw a snowball at someone’s face, then you can’t really get to angry when someone throws a snowball at the back of you head. You should have been more specific and said no throwing snowballs at the HEAD. Know what’s acceptable and what’s not, and you’ll all have a more exciting game.
Above all, be safe. Dress warmly in waterproof clothing, don’t throw rocks or ice, and be gentle with younger children. If you follow these rules and are creative with your strategies, then you’ll soon find yourself enjoying a snowball fight that you likely have a very good chance of winning.
Snow days happen. They simply cannot be avoided in many areas, and you may find yourself completely snowed in at one point or another during the long and cold winter months. Movies are often a natural way to entertain yourself, but it’s not always easy to select the right movie. Your choices will mostly be determined by who you’re snowed in with and how many children of varying ages you have running around. So pop some popcorn, grab a warm blanket, and settle in for the day.
Romantic Movies
If you’re snowed in either your partner, you might be in a romantic mood. While there are many options available, there are certain movies that just seem more romantic and suited to a snow day than others. “Casablanca” is a classic, and well worth the time, even if you’re by yourself for the day. What it with your partner, with the snow falling down outside, and you’re sure to have a romantic evening.
Other options include “Singing in the Rain,” purely for the music, as the story itself is just a little flat. You could also go for something lighter, such as “Ever After,” which is a cute little version of the Cinderella fable, but without the magic. “The Princess Bride” is an enchanting little fantasy that’s good for all audiences.
Other good romances to watch when you’re snowed in with your partner include “The Time Traveler’s Wife,” “Tristan and Isolde,” or perhaps the story of Queen Victoria’s romance with Prince Albert in “Young Victoria.” All of these would satisfy the need for romance while trapped by the weather.
Family Movies
Inevitably, many families end up snowed in, either because the roads are truly impassable, or simply because the local school division has cancelled classes. In this case, it’s time to hunt down the more family-oriented movies. If you have children who love trains, “The Polar Express” is a wonderful choice, with upbeat music and a cute little story. The classic animated feature “Fern Gully” is also a good idea, especially if you want a movie completely devoid of snow. It has the added bonus on a variety of positive messages for your children to absorb.
“Alvin and the Chipmunks” is good for a few laughs and might even make you forget that it’s snowing outside. Other good choices include “Arthur and the Invisibles” or really any Disney animated movie, such as “The Lion King” or “Bambi.” For the older children you love fantasy, try one of “The Chronicles of Narnia” movies, or any movie in the “Harry Potter” series.
Action or Adventure Movies
There are so many movies in this category that it’s almost impossible to choose just a few to mention. However, if you’re snowed in all alone and want something fast-paced and exciting, These movies come in all genres, so you’ll have to choose based on what you like, and what you have in your movie cabinet.
Some suggestions in this category include most movies with Steven Seagal or Harrison Ford (“Under Siege” or “Air Force One” both come to mind). You could also watch “The Bourne Identity” or another of the Bourne films, or “Independence Day.” Beware of these movies if your children are under thirteen. Discretion is advised for most of these movies.
If you’re looking for a little more fantasy with your action, consider the “Jurassic Park” series, any “Star Trek” movie, or any of the “X-Men” movies. Any of these will keep you entertained and occupied during the long, dark snow day ahead.
Dramatic Movies
This is another category just exploding with possibly movies, and most of these movies cross over into other genres. You could try “Schindler’s List,” which is both disturbing and fascinating but generally not suited for young children. A true tear-jerker, it can easily fill part of your day, if it’s a movie that interests you. “I Am Legend” is another interesting pick for a cold winter’s day.
“Legends of the Fall” is a journey into the dark secrets of love and betrayal, but also emphasizes the bonds of family. It’s exciting, romantic, and sad all at the same time and is sure to satisfy many audiences. Of course, if you simply want a movie that reminds you things can always get worse than being snowed in, try “The Day After Tomorrow.” This is the movie my own children pick when we can't get out of the driveway.
There are hundreds of movies to choose from, and narrowing it down is no easy task. Try making your own list of movies you can watch during a long day at home and keep in handy. And remember, if you are really in doubt and want to spend the entire day immersed in a movie, take yourself off to Middle Earth for the day and play the extended version of “The Lord of the Rings.” All three films. That should last until your street is plowed.
Snow days are an almost inevitable part of any winter. At some point during the season, you’ll see a winter wonderland outside, and hear the declaration on the radio — it’s a snow day. This may not always seem like a bad thing, but if you’re a parent of teenagers, finding ways to occupy your older children might present a challenge. This is especially true during a snow day, when boredom sets in even faster than normal. Fortunately, there are many fun and creative ways to entertain your teens during the long snow days.
If your teens haven’t touched board games in a while, it’s time to bring them out. Look through your closets and cupboards for classics such as Monopoly, Clue, or maybe even Myst. There are also some modern board games that are particularly suited to curious teenagers, such as Dragonology or perhaps even the DVD-board game Atmosfear. When you’re shopping between snow days, keep your eyes open for new and exciting board games to fill long snow days and evenings that you may face.
While you're out shopping, purchase those model kits that sometimes go on sale. They make a wonderful activity on a cold winter day. Purchase a variety to entertain all your teenagers. Look for model cars, trains, and airplanes, but also keep your eye out for model buildings. The budding architect in your family will really enjoy the opportunity to construct a scale model.
Try to get your teens to write a story. This may seem difficult, but if you have budding authors in your household, it may be worth the effort to get them to all sit down and commit thoughts to paper. Let each teenager write whatever they like, whether it’s a short story, flash fiction, or maybe even the very beginnings of a novel. If you have a teen who has difficulty finding ideas, help them out by giving them some basic plot points, but let them do the real writing.
If the weather permits, get your teenagers outside. Try to encourage them to do something fun. They’re certainly not too old to build a snow fort or throw a few snowballs back and forth. You might even be able to convince them to build a snowman, or even make a few snow angels in the front yard. Teenagers do enjoy the chance to let loose and have a good time, but they do sometimes need a little encouragement.
If the roads aren’t closed, consider heading out with your teens. Skating and sledding are wonderful ways to pass the time, even for older children. Depending on your teenagers and their own interests, you might want to head to the local park and either try skiing or snow shoeing. If you don’t have the equipment, look for places that will rent it to you for the day.
Start a scrapbook. Teens and older children often enjoy the opportunity to exercise their creative abilities, so pull out the paper, photos, and scrapbooks and get started. Maybe even take a few moments to capture the snow day itself on camera. If you don’t have all the supplies and can’t run to the craft store, just focus on organizing the photos you want to use. Make a promise to each other to put the scrapbook together as soon as possible.
If you really can't think of anything to do, engage your teenagers in a game of charades. Your teenagers might groan a bit at first, but give it a chance anyway. Within just a few moments you might find your children laughing and enjoying themselves, despite their best intentions.
Get your teens together and plan the ultimate snow day dinner. Act mainly as supervisor and have them do the majority of the preparation. Let them guide the dinner, all the way from menu selection to presentation of the meal. Girls as well as boys can participate in this activity. Consider making this an all-day event and baking breads and muffins, perhaps enough to last the entire week. This is a great bonding activity, and if you choose to make a cake, your teenagers can have a lot of fun decorating it.
Make some music. If you or your teenagers play any instruments, take turns playing for each other. You could even all play together. If no one plays an instrument, everyone can choose their favorite songs from their iPod, a CD, or from the radio. Take turns dancing to each song, getting as creative and as silly as you like. Teens might enjoy the opportunity to express themselves through dance without friends around to watch.
Make it a movie day. Have your teens select their favorite movies and play them, one by one. Between movies, ask your teens to analyze different aspects of each movie. Perhaps ask them about plot, theme, or character development. If they’re in high school, they may have been discussing these things in one of their classes, so they may have some detailed insights into each movie.
A snow day doesn’t have to mean boredom. There are so many ways to entertain your teenagers when they’re stuck at home. Try to get them engaged in the normal activities around the house, and then add something that’s not quite so normal. Have fun, get creative, and make some memories before your teens grow up.
At many holiday parties, there are children. These children need to be entertained as much as their parents do, but it’s not always an easy task. Instead of the same boring old games, try these exciting diversions to keep the younger crowd happy and amused.
Santa Says: This game is very similar to the traditional ‘Simon Says’. Simply have one player be Santa, and have him or her issue commands. ‘Santa says … sit down.’ ‘Santa says … hop on one foot.’ But if he doesn’t say ‘Santa says’ the children should ignore the command. Sometimes Santa will say ‘Santa says’ and sometimes he won’t, so this game makes children pay attention. The younger crowd really enjoys this game.
Fill the Stocking: Most children love relay races. For this game, the children may have to divide into teams if there aren’t enough stockings to go around. Each child has a stocking at one end of the room and a spoon. At the other end of the room is a bowl of candy. Children must take a spoonful of candy and race across the room, attempting to fill their stockings as quickly as possible. The first one to fill their stocking wins and everyone gets to take their candy home at the end of the party.
Christmas Freeze: This game is easy for even the youngest children. Simply play some Christmas music, have the children move and dance around the room until the music stops, at which point they must ‘freeze’ in the position they happen to be in. This game will result in much merriment and amusement.
Candy Cane Aim: Give each child five candy canes and have everyone gather around the Christmas tree. Taking turns, allow the children to toss their candy canes into the tree. The winner is the child who hooks the most candy canes over branches.
Gift Unwrap Race: Wrap up empty boxes ahead of time. At the party, give each child three boxes to unwrap, and place a garbage can at the other end of the room. The children must unwrap a gift, run to the other side of the room, put the paper in the garbage, and run back to unwrap the next gift. The first child to finish unwrapping all three gifts, and to get all their paper in the garbage, is the winner.
Trim the Tree: Didn’t have time to decorate your tree? Turn it into a fun game for children. The kids will love a chance to show off their creativity, and you’ll be saved the time and effort of decorating your own tree.
Make a Friend: Let the children decorate cookies shaped like people. Gingerbread cookies work well, but any kind of cookie will do. You could even go so far as to offer gingerbread houses for each child to decorate. Try to avoid having all children decorate one house. Small children especially may not be good at sharing.
There are dozens of other games that children would enjoy at any Christmas party. Many typical party games can be adapted for the holidays. The important thing is to relax, get creative, and have fun.
We love to read in our house. My two children have scores of books and they read everyday. And I read to them. They're not quite old enough to not want that bedtime story. But I'm very picky about the books I allow in my home, especially when it comes to book for my children. They have to engaged my children and either educate or expand their horizons. I spend a lot of time looking for books that suit my purposes, and here are four of my favorites, one for each age group from toddler to tweens and teens.
If You're a Monster and You Know It (Ages 3-5)
My toddler likes vibrant colors and sing-song rhythm, and If You're a Monster and You Know It delivers. My youngest son likes the blank background that makes the illustrations pop off the page and loves the chance to jump up and stomp along with the book. Written by Rebecca and Ed Emberley and published by Scholastic, this book is definately recommended for toddlers and even slightly older children.
Splinters (Ages 6-9) Published by Tundra and written by Kevin Sylvester, Splinters is a great book for boys and girls that puts a twist on the classic Cinderella story. Instead of a fairy godmother, there's a fairy goaltender, and the coach is named Charmaine Prince. And the glass slippers? They've become a pair of hockey skates. Definately a lot of fun.
The Memory Bank (Ages 7-10) Looking for something a little whimsical and even fantastical? The Memory Bank by Carolyn Coman may be the answer. Illustrated by Rob Shepperson, this book features a character who enters the World Wide Memory Bank in the hopes of finding a clue to lead her to her little sister. Dreams and memories guide the main character (her name is Hope) on her journey. My older son loves to read this book to himself, and my younger likes to have me read it to him.
The Clockwork Three (Ages 8-14) And for those older kids? Well, they're probably choosing their own reading material, or at least expressing strong opinions about what they should and should not be reading. But if you can guide them toward The Clockwork Three, they would certainly benefit. Written by Matthew Kirby, this book takes place in a world that reminds me of something out of a Dickens novel. Hannah, Giuseppe, and Frederick each face hardships they cannot overcome until fate (or coincidence) brings them together so they might help each other. A charming tale defiantely worth the read.
These may not be the newest books (they're all at least 2 years old), but they're certainly good reads. Each book is strong on its own merits and contributes something to the imagination of your children. Take a look and see if they're worth adding to your own library.
I've finally come to the conclusion that I'm not going to get away from TV. Even if I don't let my children watch TV, they go to school and hear about television shows from their friends. Such is life, I guess. I don't have to be happy about it, but I do have to learn to adapt to it.
After I came to this realization, I decided to take a look and see what shows were out there that I felt were educational and entertaining for my children. So with their help, I've selected three shows, each aimed at a different age group, that I think children might actually get something out of. Beyond ridiculous entertainment, that is. Please note: channels indicated may be different in your region.
The Cat in the Hate Knows a Lot About That
I was browsing Treehouse for most of the day to find a show or two I wouldn't mind having my preschooler watch when I came upon this cute little show. Now, I'm a fan of Dr. Seuss, so I actually gave this show my undivided attention for a little while. I was pleasantly surprised by what I saw. The first thing that caught my attention was the animation. It was very like watching the classic Dr. Seuss come to life. The rhymes were in keeping with The Cat in the Hat. And though I'm not a fan of Martin Short, his voice seemed to just fit the show and character. The best thing about this TV show? It actually engaged my 4-year-old.
Artzooka!
My 6-year-old isn't quite so easily entertained. I had to search a little harder for a program he enjoyed and that didn't drive me nuts. I finally found one on CBC. Artzooka! went beyond making crafts. It actually went into art theory and practice and encouraged my son to see the world from a new and artistic perspective. My 6-year-old actually paid attention and learned something, as evidenced by the craft projects that were quickly produced on the dining room table. I enjoyed his efforts and he stopped asking if he could go see the new Batman movie (which he was never going to be allowed to see). Sweet peace for both of us.
Big Time Rush
And what about older children? Those kids we call tweens? Let's face it. They don't want to watch what we want them to watch. And they figured out how to work the remote years ago. These kids want entertainment, not educational programming. So finding something that can be agreed upon by parent and child isn't always easy. Both parties will have to compromise just a little.
But I got lucky with YTV's Big Time Rush. I didn't hate it (and I really hate most children's programming these days). The tweens found it hilarious. It's just a show about a few goofs from Minnesota that run off to Los Angeles. Why do they run off to LA? They apparently want to make it as a boy band. And hilarity ensues. Slapstick stuff, mostly. But I didn't find the show offensive and the tweens loved it. Good enough in my books.
It's not always easy to find television programming that both parent and child can live with. But with a little exploration and some compromise, it is possible to let your children watch some television without turning into TV zombies. Just remember to always watch 2 or 3 episodes with your child so you know exactly what they're being exposed to.
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